Why
Should I Join a Fraternity or Sorority? See some of the ways that Greek life
can positively influence your college career and the rest of your life!
Success
I want to be successful in life.
What does this
mean to me?
I want to do well academically.
I want to graduate in four years and have a job that pays me well.
I want to do research or have an internship in my field of study.
I want to have a rapport with my professors.
I want to provide leadership to my organization. I do not just want a pin and a certificate.
I want to have mentors and friends to help me develop as a student and as a person.
How will
joining a fraternity or sorority help me?
Fraternities and sororities stress academics and reward those who
excel academically. They have academic expectations for members and resources
to assist members during their education and into their job search. Fraternities
and sororities are committed to achieving your goals.
Members develop relationships with chapter alumni who can assist with resumes, job placement, marketing your Greek experience, and settling in a new location after graduation.
Fraternities and sororities provide opportunities to meet many people who will assist you. Through educational programs, you will be introduced to many campus resources that will help you excel.
You will improve your communication and interpersonal skills.
This will happen though your interactions and leadership experiences. Employers
will value the skills you will develop through your Greek experience.
Personal
Development
I want to be a better person.
What does this
mean to me?
I want leadership opportunities.
I want to learn to work efficiently with others and learn how to
confront inappropriate behavior.
I want to learn how to interact socially with others in an
appropriate way.
I want responsibility, both personally and professionally.
I want to be involved in my community.
I want to be aware of and celebrate diversity.
I want to develop life skills, including money management, working
within a team, living on my own, and running an organization.
How will
joining a fraternity or a sorority help me?
Chapters have leadership positions, financial responsibilities,
and policies and procedures to follow, much like most organizations and companies.
There is an executive board of offices as well as other leadership positions in
each chapter. The chance to lead others is not only available, but expected.
Fraternities and sororities offer leadership training and
development at a chapter, campus, regional, and national level. There is a
specific training for new members, for initiated chapter members, and for those
holding positions within the chapter.
Within weeks of being affiliated with a chapter, you will have
specific brothers or sisters with whom you will form a mentoring relationship
and go to for guidance and support. Additionally, there are chances to shadow
and learn from current officers.
A fraternity or sorority is a group of men and women who work
together to achieve goals they have set for themselves. You will learn how to
plan events, work with people, hold members accountable for their behaviors,
confront inappropriate behavior, build relationships, and praise them for a job
well done.
Part of a fraternity or sorority is that it is social in nature,
but that does not simply imply drinking and partying. It allows you to meet
other people in a fun environment and become comfortable getting to know people
you have met for the first time.
Fraternities and sororities hold in high regard their
responsibility to give back to out community. Whether it is donating their
time, working with others, or raising money for a worthy cause, they dedicate
themselves to helping others.
Lifelong
Friends
I want to form lifelong friendships.
What does this
mean to me?
I want to find a close-knit group of friends and create a positive "home away from home" environment.
After graduating from college, I want to have a connection with my alma mater and look forward to returning and contributing to my school.
I want to form a network of friends who will assist me personally and professionally in the future.
I want friendships based on a set of common values and interests.
How will
joining a fraternity or sorority help me?
A fraternity or sorority gives you the opportunity to make new
friends who will be with you long after graduation. The men and women you meet
today will be the ones who stand up in your wedding, provide guidance when you
are struggling, and share in your happiness for many years.
Many fraternities and sororities have alumni who will share their
experiences and help prepare you for life after graduation. The common bond of
fraternity will carry beyond the members you join with and into the many alumni
who have this shared experience. Their knowledge will be beneficial to you as
you prepare for a career.
By seizing the opportunity to join a chapter, you will have the
chance to share common experiences, challenge your thoughts and beliefs, learn
from others, and thus create the basis for lifelong friendships.
Fraternities and sororities have a foundation of values and
standards known as the ritual. Through ritual, you will learn the basic
concepts of friendship and values that will bring you closer to your brothers
and sisters. This common bond will be with you for your life.
Enjoy
Life
I want to have fun in college!
What does this
mean to me?
I want to meet new people and do new things.
I need stress relieving activities.
I want to participate in campus events.
I want to visit new places.
I do not want my experiences clouded by alcohol.
How will
joining a fraternity or sorority help me?
Chapters often participate in campus events and go to sporting
events.
You will be encouraged to get involved in other student
organizations.
Many fraternities and sororities participate in intramural sports
that will give you the opportunity to play competitive athletic ranging from
football and volleyball to almost everything in between. Members also often
lift weights, run, and exercise together.
Fraternities and sororities have organized and informal events
and activities for members and guests
Many chapters organize study breaks, movie nights, or sports
nights so they can spend time with each other.
Reference Courtesy of
North-American Interfraternity Council:
Sax, L.J., Astin, A.W., Korn, W.S. & Mahoney, K.M. (1999) The American
Freshman: National Norms for Fall 1999, Los Angeles: Higher Education Research
Institute, UCLA.